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AFFECTED THE WAY FOR BETTER UNDERSTANDING YOURSELF - Part Two -

Riconoscere ed accettare il "bambino" che si è stati

A major cause of suffering and misery in adults is to ignore or give little importance to the time when we were children. The attitudes and feelings from childhood, influence and interfere greatly with the life of us adults and often result in us an inner fatigue and an inability to relax, those terrible headache and upset stomach that feed our frustrations . The child is a being that we were able to disrupt the lives of others but also the dark and frightening part of our personality. Whether we like it or not, we are at the same time the child that we were living in the atmosphere of the past, and the adult who tries to forget the past and live only the present reality. It must therefore be able to recognize and accept, fix limits fscevano with us as parents to establish rules and disciplines to protect us.

often conflicts between the child and the adult of the past that we have become, causing such serious imbalances requiring the intervention of specialists. It is estimated that a doctor spend 30-50% of his time to the care of these disorders.

The problems that we will discuss the other hand, does not apply to people who have severe mental health problems, but problems affect the daily lives of ordinary people.

understand or try to understand the causes of our loneliness and our unease.

WHMissildine , based on his experience as a child psychiatrist, sets out three fundamental concepts:

1 - Your child of the past: the that you were a child once, and that continues to exist in your adult life.

2 - Being a parent of yourself: you're already behaving like a parent of your child of the past and their reactions to your behavior by a parent are often caused so much trouble.

3 - mutual respect: it is the basis for getting along with your child of the past and with other people.

Having treated patients with both children and adults, could often observe the child in conflict with the attitudes of his parents and an adult struggling with the attitudes of parents with whom he grew up and which continued to be taken against himself.

Very interesting is the story of how the past has affected the child's adult life A. Fleming, who had a complete inability to express themselves and to convey to anyone what he felt.

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