"This book seeks to explain yourself to yourself to enable us to live more full, free and balanced with yourself and with others ...... ................ My hope is that you manage to find yourself in this book, and if you get recognized, you can begin to consider a little more respect. "
That 's what he writes WHMissildine (U.S. child psychiatrists) in the preface to his wonderful book: "The child that you have been .
It is assumed that each of us has been a child and therefore experiences lived in 'childhood determine our attitudes of adults. The child that we were not part of the past, but continues to exist within us and affect our behavior and our emotions.
"What happened to the child that you have been? E 'dead? E' was thrown somewhere like the old toys, folder sledding? E 'was perhaps abandoned, lost over time and forgotten at the end? "
should learn to remember who we were and the environment in which we lived, and how our parents interacted with the children. Whenever we find ourselves facing a single individual, either friend or life partner or work colleague, we must consider that we are four, not two, next to us are the children we were. The book describes events that happened to some patients and reported as such, stories that I omit, as I will focus in particular sull'esasperazione of some pathogens and harmful attitudes of parents and the consequences that affect children and on adults it will become.
Each scheme is described in psychological "pure" which in reality does not exist. Each attitude is not completely cover it but we could end up in several respects and do not forget that our parents are human beings with their weaknesses, the bearers of attitudes rooted in their culture and children who have been.
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