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THE WAY FOR BETTER UNDERSTANDING YOURSELF - Part Four

PERFECTIONISM

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E 'attitude pathogen taken from successful people who struggle constantly to achieve more, to achieve "perfection" without actually because once you reach the goal, yet they claim to do better.

Who is the Perfectionist? Typically, the perfectionist is' inhuman efforts so that everything is perfect: everything in its place, the colors combined in the right way, the angle of the box set perfectly, the house system with the things in the right place, the right words at the moment right, of course, precisely at the times, scrupulous observance of good manners, etc. .... hardly find the person (partner) that will be fine. E 'methodical, perfectionist, meticulous and systematic, organized every detail and demands from others the same behavior. The perfectionist spends most of the energy necessary, rages in performance for a short-term satisfaction because his motto is "fight to do even better. "

What caused the Perfectionism? When a parent denies the child is demanding and claiming their agreement from him a maturity beyond his age, there is the" perfection. "Even when the child will do something good (take a good mark or simply an act of good manners), the parent does not adequately reward the child, but urges him to do even meglio.Il parent is not 'nothing but keep his son under constant tension, anxiety for himself and for what he does', instilling in him contempt and distrust of self.

The adult child will be constantly harassed and worried to achieve positive results both in physical, intellectual or social, will also be perpetually dissatisfied and

despise the goals that will achieve downplaying his achievements.

What can you do?

1. Try to remember the moments of denigration of the "child of the past and strive to reduce" its "unnecessary tension to always do better
2. Invented a way all of your question, setting out new rules and tries to ignore the claims that the parents had with you.
3. Face and contrast your tendency to self-denigration, bear the anxiety that is created until it is established will be your new attitude, learn not to minimize and do not struggle to achieve quell'irraggiungibile perfectionism.

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