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The Importance of the father figure in the evolutionary development BABY (Third and last part)

father-son relationship

The absence of the father determines the child rather a difficulty in establishing affective relationships. The father contributes in several ways shaping the character of his daughter, first by providing an image of "difference" that helps the process of differentiation from the mother, which is crucial to be able to relate with people of the opposite sex. So when there are difficulties in the relationship father-daughter problem that can arise is relational and it will be with the men in her life that will catch the internalized image of his father. The passage of " oedipal phase is very delicate and it is precisely in this period that the father should strike a balance between distance and closeness. The first case is likely to create some difficulty and fear n el relationships with men, in the second case would prevent the excessive involvement of the relationship with other men live in a free, since the idealized image of the father will always a winner. It will be important, therefore, the appreciation of his daughter without conceding too much intimacy to avoid "fixation" on him, by directing the child's libido to the outside world. The little girl must always understand the difference between male and female and the father should help her daughter to " off "by him to help her gain independence and to facilitate future sexual and emotional relationships. It will therefore be essential that the presence of the mother figure for her daughter will be a reference model in order to avoid ; identify the father. This would cause a very difficult situation that would undermine its internal structure e la sua capacità di relazionarsi con l’altro sesso.

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